Netnewswire Mac Serial Check' title='Netnewswire Mac Serial Check' />Heres How Much Sex Everybody Is Having. Were kicking off Sex Ed for GrownUps with a reality check on whats normal, sexwise. Take a Read more Read. More ways to shop Visit an Apple Store, call 1800MYAPPLE, or find a reseller. How to Turn Your Partner Down for Sex. There are plenty of perfectly normal reasons for not wanting to have sex when your partner initiates youre exhausted, youre distracted, you have other things you need to do, youre just not in the mood. Unfortunately, most of us arent very skillful at turning our partners down. Were kicking off Sex Ed for Grown Ups with a reality check on whats normal, sex wise. Take aRead more Read. Even in the best of circumstances, getting turned down for sex stings. Thank you for stopping by. Google Reader has been discontinued. We want to thank all our loyal fans. We understand you may not agree with this decision. If you get panicked by crowds, you might not even know it. You might just tense up or get angry. I got snippy at the farmers market for years before I noticed the. Safari is a web browser developed by Apple based on the WebKit engine. First released in 2003 with Mac OS X Panther, a mobile version has been included in iOS devices. In a long term relationship, getting turned down repeatedly can eventually lead to resentment. In some relationships, the resentment can grow to the point where it starts to destroy the relationship. The stakes are high. So its important for us to get it right. A while back, I wrote an article about how to initiate sex in a way that will make your partner want to say yes. Today Im sharing tips for turning your partner down for sex in a way that will actually bring you closer together, not tear you apart. Acknowledge Their Initiation. Initiating sex always makes one feel vulnerable. Youre putting yourself out there and asking for what you want. Youre also putting yourself in the position of being turned down. As a sex therapist, I hear from innumerable couples who struggle with sexual compatibility. OneRead more Read. When your partner initiates, take a moment to acknowledge the invitation. The initiation may feel bothersome to you in that moment if youre not in the mood, but its important to appreciate their vulnerability. Dont ignore their invitation or pretend you didnt hear them. Just say something simple like, I appreciate you asking or Im flattered that you want me right now. Then proceed to some of the other steps Ive outlined below. Dont Mock Their Desire. Your partner is occasionally going to initiate sex at times when you cant possibly imagine anyone being interested in sex. Maybe you just put the baby to bed and you have vomit in your hair and poo on your hands. Or maybe you just got back from a hard run and are sweating in places you didnt even know you could sweat. No, you dont need to feel like a weirdo or worry about your health because you arent gettingRead more Read. Try your hardest not to blurt, You want to have sex NOW Are you kidding Not only will your partner feel rejected, theyll also get a nice side serving of humiliation. Actually Consider Their Invitation. Even the most sexually compatible couples rarely want sex at the exact same time. There is an extremely high likelihood that youre not going to be interested in sex the moment that your partner initiates. For that reason, its important to give yourself some time to consider whether or not youd like to be intimate. The phrase scheduled sex evokes dread for most couples. We have the idea that sex is alwaysRead more Read. Here are a few ways to do that Ask yourself, Am I open to seeing if I get turned on Or, Am I open to connecting with my partner right now These questions make it clear that you dont need to be turned on right in that moment. You just have to be open to the possibility of it. Give yourself more time. Say, Give me ten minutes to finish up this email. Once Ive got this off my mind, Ill be able to see if Im up for it. If youre not sure, thats not a problem. You can always tell your partner, Im not sure how Im feeling. Im down to start making out and see where it goes. If you dont end up getting turned on, you dont have to keep going. See If You Want to Do Something Else. Most couples get into routines read ruts when it comes to sex. They do the same things over and over again. If your partner initiates with you, you probably think of the same old boring routine you always fall into, and it probably doesnt sound particularly enticing. This is a great reason to shake things up in the bedroom, but thats another article. Ever wondered what freaky or non freaky stuff your partner is into, but are too afraid to ask Or Read more Read. When your partner initiates, its an opportunity to see if theres something different you might be interested in at the moment. Lets say you and your partner typically default to intercourse. In that particular moment, maybe you dont want to have intercourse, but you wouldnt mind talking dirty while your partner masturbates. Suggest that instead Even if you dont want to do anything sexual, you can still spend some quality time being intimate together. Give a Reason. To be clear, youre allowed to say no to sex for no reason in particular. Its your bodyyou get to decide what you want to do with it. But hearing a specific reason why youre not up for it in that moment can soften the blow for your partner. If they understand that youre stressed out about your upcoming presentation, or worried about your moms health, theyll be more understanding and less likely to get their feelings hurt. Giving a specific reason also helps you start to develop a better understanding of when you are and arent open to sex. Ill talk about this more in a moment. Turn Down Sex, Not Your Partner. Giving a reason also helps your partner recognize that youre turning down sex, in that particular moment, for that particular reason. Youre not turning down your partner. Like I said, getting turned down for sex is always going to sting, but its nice to feel that distinction. If your partner seems bummed, you can even make the distinction clear. Say, Im turning down sex right now, but Im not turning down you. You can also frame it in terms of your ability to be present for your partner. Try something like, Id really love to connect with you right now, but my head is swimming after this bad review at work, and I know I wouldnt be able to stay present. I dont want you to feel like youre trying to have sex with someone who isnt there. Communicating your sexual wants and needs is an important part of being in a relationship, but its Read more Read. Set Your Partner up for Success. If you can get into the habit of giving specific reasons why youre not interested in sex, you may start to notice patterns. Share that insight with your partner. Say something like, Ive noticed that Im much more open to sex when were just getting up in the morning on the weekends. Or, Ive realized that energy plays a big role for me. By the time we get to the end of the night, Im just too tired for sex. But if you were to initiate with me when we first get home from work, Im not as tired then and might be more game. Address the Imbalance. In almost every relationship, one partner has a higher sex drive than the other. That partner usually winds up doing the majority of the initiating. It can be really helpful for the two of you to acknowledge that imbalance. Say something like, I realize that youre the one who usually does the initiating. I imagine that can be pretty challenging for you. That simple sentence can go a long way. Even if youve been with your partner for a long time, it can be embarrassing and sensitive to Read more Read. If you dont tend to initiate very often, try to challenge yourself to initiate more frequently. Being in the position of being turned down gives you more empathy for what the experience is like. Theres no getting around it this is hard work. Sexual initiation has a way of stirring up our oldest and deepest fears and vulnerabilities, and magnifying even minor discrepancies in sex drives. Youre not always going to get it right, but the point is to keep trying. This is the kind of effort that truly defines a relationship. Safari web browser Wikipedia. Safari is a web browser developed by Apple based on the Web. Kit engine. First released in 2. Mac OS X Panther, a mobile version has been included in i. OS devices since the introduction of the i. Phone in 2. 00. 7. It is the default browser on Apple devices. A Windows version, now discontinued,3 was available from 2. History and developmenteditUntil 1. Apple Macintosh computers were shipped with the Netscape Navigator and Cyberdog web browsers only. Internet Explorer for Mac was later included as the default web browser for Mac OS 8. Apple and Microsoft. During that time, Microsoft released three major versions of Internet Explorer for Mac that were bundled with Mac OS 8 and Mac OS 9, though Apple continued to include Netscape Navigator as an alternative. Microsoft ultimately released a Mac OS X edition of Internet Explorer for Mac, which was included as the default browser in all Mac OS X releases from Mac OS X DP45 up to and including Mac OS X v. Safari 1editOn January 7, 2. Macworld San Francisco, Steve Jobs announced that Apple had developed their own web browser, called Safari. It was based on Apples internal fork of the KHTMLrendering engine, called Web. Kit. 7 Apple released the first beta version for OS X that day. A number of official and unofficial beta versions followed, until version 1. June 2. 3, 2. 00. Initially only available as a separate download for Mac OS X v. Mac OS X v. 10. 3 release on October 2. Internet Explorer for Mac included only as an alternative browser. August 1. 3, 2. 00. Mac OS X v. 10. 2, while 1. January 1. 2, 2. 00. Mac OS X v. 10. 3. However, 1. 0. 3 received security updates through 2. Safari 2editIn April 2. Dave Hyatt, one of the Safari developers at Apple, documented his study by fixing specific bugs in Safari, thereby enabling it to pass the Acid. Web Standards Project. On April 2. 7, 2. Safari now passed the test, making it the first web browser to do so. Safari 2. April 2. Mac OS X v. 10. 4. This version was touted by Apple as possessing a 1. Acid. 2 bug fixes. The necessary changes were initially unavailable to end users unless they downloaded and compiled the Web. Kit source code themselves or ran one of the nightly automated builds available at Open. Darwin. org. 1. 0 Apple eventually released version 2. Safari, which included the modifications required to pass Acid. October 3. 1, 2. 00. In June 2. 00. 5, after some criticism from KHTML developers over lack of access to change logs, Apple moved the development source code and bug tracking of Web. Core and Java. Script. Core to Open. Darwin. Web. Kit itself was also released as open source. The source code for non renderer aspects of the browser, such as its GUI elements, remains proprietary. The final stable version of Safari 2, Safari 2. January 1. 0, 2. 00. Mac OS X. It was only available as part of Mac OS X Update 1. This version addresses layout and CPU usage issues, among others. Safari 2. 0. 4 was the last version to be released exclusively on Mac OS X until version 6 in 2. Safari 3editOn January 9, 2. Macworld SF, Jobs announced Apples i. Phone, which would use a mobile version of the Safari browser. On June 1. 1, 2. 00. Apple Worldwide Developers Conference, Jobs announced Safari 3 for Mac OS X v. Windows XP, and Windows Vista. During the announcement, he ran a benchmark based on the i. Bench browser test suite comparing the most popular Windows browsers,1. Safari was the fastest browser. Later third party tests of HTTP load times would support Apples claim that Safari 3 was indeed the fastest browser on the Windows platform in terms of initial data loading over the Internet, though it was found to be only negligibly faster than Internet Explorer 7 and Mozilla Firefox when loading static content from local cache. The initial Safari 3 beta version for Windows, released on the same day as its announcement at WWDC 2. The addressed bugs were then corrected by Apple three days later on June 1. Windows. On June 2. Apple released Safari 3. Safari 3. 0. 2 for Windows handles some fonts that are missing in the browser but already installed on Windows computers, such as Tahoma, Trebuchet MS, and others. The i. Phone was formally released on June 2. It includes a version of Safari based on the same Web. Kit rendering engine as the desktop version, but with a modified feature set better suited for a mobile device. The version number of Safari as reported in its user agent string is 3. Safari. The first stable, non beta release of Safari for Windows, Safari 3. March 1. 8, 2. 00. In June 2. 00. 8, Apple released version 3. Windows version where visiting a malicious web site could force a download of executable files and execute them on the users desktop. Safari 3. 2, released on November 1. Google Safe Browsing and Extended Validation Certificate support. The final version of Safari 3 is 3. May 1. 2, 2. 00. 9. Safari 4editOn June 2, 2. Web. Kit development team announced Squirrel. Fish,2. 1 a new Java. Script engine that vastly improves Safaris speed at interpreting scripts. The engine is one of the new features in Safari 4, released to developers on June 1. The new Java. Script engine quickly evolved into Squirrel. Fish Extreme, featuring even further improved performance over Squirrel. Fish,2. 3 and was eventually marketed as Nitro. A public beta of Safari 4 was released on February 2. Top Sites tool similar to Operas Speed Dial feature, which displays the users most visited sites on a 3. D wall. 2. 4Cover Flow, a feature of Mac OS X and i. Tunes, was also implemented in Safari. In the public beta versions, tabs were placed in the title bar of the window, similar to Google Chrome. The tab bar was moved back to its original location, below the URL bar, in the final release. The Windows version adopted a native Windows theme, rather than the previously employed Mac OS X style interface. Also Apple removed the blue progress bar located in the address bar later reinstated in Safari 5. Safari 4. 0. 1 was released for Mac on June 1. Faces in i. Photo 0. Safari 4 in Mac OS X v. Snow Leopard has 6. Java. Script loading up to 5. It also has built in crash resistance unique to Snow Leopard crash resistance will keep the browser intact if a plug in like Flash player crashes, such that the other tabs or windows will be unaffected. Safari 4. 0. 4, released on November 1. OS X and Windows, further improves Java. Magicinfo Pro Server Software. Script performance. Safari was one of the twelve browsers offered to EU users of Microsoft Windows in 2. It was one of the five browsers displayed on the first page of browser choices along with Chrome, Firefox, Internet Explorer and Opera. Safari 4 featureseditBeginning with Safari 4, the address bar has been completely revamped The blue inline progress bar is replaced with a spinning bezel and a loading indicator attached to it. The button to add a bookmark is now attached to the address bar by default. The reloadstop button is now superimposed on the right end of the address bar. Safari on Mac OS X and Windows was made to look more similar to Safari on i. Phone than previous versions. Safari 4 also includes the following new features Completely passes the Acid. Cover Flow browsing for History and Bookmarks. Improved developer tools, including Web Inspector, CSS element viewing, Java. Script debugger and profiler, offline table and database management with SQL support, and resource graphs. Nitro Java. Script engine that executes Java. Script up to eight times faster than Internet Explorer 8 and more than four times faster than Firefox 33. Native Windows look on Windows Aero, Luna, Classic, etc., depending on OS and settings with standard Windows font rendering and optional Apple font rendering. Support for CSS image retouching effects. Support for CSS Canvas. Speculative loading, where Safari loads the documents, scripts, and style information that are required to view a web page ahead of time. Support for HTML5. Top Sites, which displays up to 2.